PART THREE: ●#TRJ : Why did you threaten to walk away? Did you get cold feet?
○#Him : It wasn't that. I just felt she wasn't talking to me.
○#Her : Basically, I shut down when I am stressed...
○#Him : I just felt, we were planning a wedding and I needed to know certain things. If the wedding ceremony is supposed to be about us, not the guests, then I should be in the know. ○#Her : Yeah but if I am asking you questions and you're not giving me answers, I shut down.
●#TRJ : When you threatened to leave, how did she react?
○#Him : She lost it! But then she started to forward information to me like her conversations with the planner, etc. And that was what I wanted so mission accomplished. I wanted information I didn't want to be a guest at my own wedding. She had all the wedding details and I didnt have any.
○#Her : I tried to involve you in the wedding and you didn't want to be...
○#Him : I didn't mind her sorting out most things, I know women tend to be more involved in certain things but I at least expected to be carried along. She sort of kept the details to herself and I had to chase for information. So at that point when I felt I would be a stranger at my own wedding, I said "you know what? Just go marry yourself! Keep the ring". ○#Her : Anyway, so after losing it for a while, I eventually forwarded the details to him and we just carried on with the planning. ●#TRJ : So you are both married now but you live in Canada and she lives in Singapore, where would you both settle?
○Both: We are taking it one step at a time and then we will decide.
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